Preheat the oven to 375ºF (190ºC) and have a 9 x 13-inch (23 x 33 cm) baking dish ready.
Bring a large pot of water to a boil, add 2 tablespoons salt, then cook the macaroni until al dente according to the package directions. Reserve ½ cup (125 ml) of the pasta cooking water, drain the macaroni in a colander, and set aside.
Return the pot to medium-low heat, melt the butter until lightly bubbling, then stir in the flour. Cook, stirring often, for about 2 minutes, letting the roux bubble gently without browning.
Add the milk, reserved pasta water, mustard, salt, pepper, and MSG. Stir well to combine. Continue heating over medium-low heat until smooth. The lumps of flour will disappear as the milk heats.
Add the grated cheddar and cheese spread, stirring until fully melted and cohesive. Break up the cheese spread with a spatula as it heats.
Stir in the drained macaroni and chopped lobster until evenly coated, then transfer the mixture to the prepared baking dish.
In a small bowl, mix the cornflake crumbs with the melted butter until evenly moistened. Scatter the crumbs evenly over the mac and cheese. Bake for 18 to 20 minutes, until hot and bubbling, then broil for 2 to 3 minutes, watching closely, until the topping is golden. Serve hot with a simple green salad or steamed broccoli.
Notes
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Let the mac and cheese rest for 5 minutes before serving so the sauce settles slightly.
Storage
Let leftovers cool completely, then transfer to an airtight container and refrigerate for up to 3 days. Reheat gently in a 350ºF (180ºC) oven or in the microwave with a splash of milk or cream to loosen the sauce.